| Nelson was a free spirited soul. Even
though he was adorned in colorful tattoos and unusual piercings, his
tough exterior couldn’t hide the big teddy bear inside. He would
always say “I love you” before hanging up the phone, and he never
left without giving you a hug. Nelson and I were always together,
whether at my home, or working together in my janitorial service. We
loved to watch American Choppers together.
Nelson’s Anniversary Edition
Harley-Davidson motorcycle was his pride and joy. He was always seen
out riding around, enjoying the open road.
We were all devastated when the phone rang
that first night of January in 2005. The caller said Nelson’s wife
had been rushed to Tampa General Hospital as the result of a
motorcycle accident. No word was given to us on Nelson’s condition
or whereabouts. Our search for Nelson brought us to Baptist Hospital
in Plant City. I was hoping, like any mother, that he would be ok,
and I would hear from him at any moment. Such a moment never came.
Our family was called in to identify the body that was brought in
from an accident….we prayed it wasn’t him, but it was.
The pain of losing a son is
indescribable. When Nelson died, he had been married and left behind
not only his brother, sister and myself, but also his wonderful wife
and 5 year old daughter, Harmonie.
Little did we know our tragedy would worsen
while making his funeral arrangements. Being a young man of 27, life
insurance was not a top priority...death seemed so many years away.
The funeral costs were so much more than we anticipated and as
a family, we were only able to come up with half. The morgue
allowed us to keep his body there until we could come up with the
rest of the money. I began to pray fervently for a way to come up
with the rest for the money that was so desperately needed.
The emotional impact of not being able to afford to bury a loved one
is humiliating and frightening. But God answered my prayers and
touched so many hearts during this time! Through the generosity of
others, He provided us with the money we needed. Nelson was able to
have the funeral he deserved.
As a final tribute to my son, I asked all
of his friends and family to ride their motorcycles to the funeral.
They did, and at the gravesite they circled his casket, revved their
engines, and then joined one another for a long ride, this time,
without Nelson. It was a beautiful moment for us all. |
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Memories of Nelson Slone
by his Aunt Dottie J. 09/2009
A tiny
baby in mommy’s arms,
Magical were his boyish charms.
He smiles with his glistening brown eyes,
A truly sincere hug with no disguise.
Nelson grew to be a giant of a man,
Not knowing of his god’s future plan.
So much to say he eagerly chattered,
About things you would think didn't really matter.
The lord knew when he looked from above,
Through his son Nelson, we would see unconditional love.
Now Brother Mike and sister Mandy mourn,
About the loss of their mommy’s first born.
Something inspiring has come of his passing.
A good that only his mommy could have seen.
Nelson died a biker and is now riding with angels,
She’s truly inspired and has only one angle.
Help someone else when the tragedy hits home,
So maybe their family won't have to face it alone!
We ask for donations not from greed or for gain,
It just gives a purpose for our family’s pain!
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